Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to?your brother; then come and offer your gift. — M a t t h e w 5 : 2 3 – 2 4 How do we reconcile with someone we truly dislike? The first place to start is praying and reading the Word daily. The Holy Spirit will bring the Scriptures to light in the dark places of our lives.